

iffany Petrosky, 21, and Robert Marek,
23, met when they were very young,
but it wasn't until 19 years later that they
actually got to know each other.
It wasn't as if they didn't have a lot
pushing them together: Their mothers had
been best friends in high school. They had
played together as babies. They went to
school together through seventh grade.
And years later they worked out at the
same gym.
Fate was bound to kick in eventually.
Both grew up in Garfield Heights, a
suburb of Cleveland. Petrosky's mother
and Marek's mother were very close during
high school. When both women married
and started families, the friends started to
grow apart. But not before their children
had played together a few times.

Photo contributed by Tiffany Petrosky
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Even though Petrosky and Marek were
later in the same class at William Foster
Elementary School, they never became
friends. When Petrosky was in seventh
grade, her parents divorced, and she
moved with her mother to New Mexico.
She finished high school there.
In 1997, Petrosky returned to Ohio to
live with her father in Garfield Heights. She
enrolled at Kent State. After a year on
campus, she moved back in with her father
for the summer. Marek noticed her when
she was working out at the gym one day.
"She concentrated really hard while she
was working, and I couldn't get her
attention," says Marek, a junior accounting
major. "She never even noticed me, but I
noticed her. Then a few days later as I was
getting out of my car at home, she was
getting out of hers only two doors down.
She lived on my street."
"He came over and introduced himself,
but neither of us realized the connection in
our pasts," says Petrosky, a junior middle
childhood education major. "He didn't ask
me out right away, but I later found out that
it was because he broke up with his
girlfriend so that he could get to know me."
Marek felt the connection right from the
beginning.
"I said to my friends she was 'the one'
before I even went out with her," Marek
says. "I knew there was something
between us."
The two started dating and eventually
talked about marriage. They picked out a
ring together in October 1999.
"I was there when he bought the ring,
but I wasn't allowed to talk about it or even
think about it," Petrosky says. "I knew it
was coming, but I just didn't know when."
In December 1999, the couple flew to
New Mexico to visit Petrosky's family for
Christmas. They had a layover in St. Louis
and spent it at the airport.
"He had been acting weird all day, and I
thought it was because he didn't get
enough sleep or something," Petrosky
says. "He was getting on my nerves, and
then he started pulling on my jacket when I
was talking to this older man in the airport."
Marek was kneeling on one knee beside
her, but he couldn't get her attention.
"She just kept on talking, and the man
that she was talking to is staring at me
because I am trying to propose and she
doesn't even know it," Marek says. "He
knew what was going on, but I couldn't get
her attention."
Finally she got the hint.
"I couldn't believe it," Petrosky says. "I
was crying, and the whole airport was
cheering and clapping. It was amazing. In
all the excitement, I didn't even say yes.
Later when we were in the air, he asked
me what my answer had been."
The couple insists it has something that
is going to last.
"From our first date, when he took me
to play miniature golf, instead of to
somewhere like a bar or a movie, I knew
he was different," Petrosky says. "And
then when my mom met him, she thought
he was wonderful. She never liked any guy
that I went out with. Once we got to know
how close our families had been, it was
even better."
"It was never awkward with us," Marek
says. "We just clicked."
 
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